Photo by: Jonella Culmer When Ayren and i found out that she was pregnant with our first kid, Trey, we waited literally until he was born to know if he was going to be a little boy or girl. If he was a boy, everything was set. His name would be John Robert Cannady III and we would call him Trey. Now if it were a girl, we had a little more work to do. We had a few names picked out but ultimately, settled on something. Once Ayren was finished checking the doctor's phone message

A few weeks ago driving Trey to school, we listen to a news report on the radio about Stephen Clark. The conversation went like this: Radio Announcer: Police are continuing to investigate the police shooting of unarmed man Stephen Clark over 20 times.... Trey: Daddy? Me: Yes Bub? Trey: What does unarmed mean? Me: Um....it means somebody doesn't have any weapons like a gun or a knife on them Trey: So why did the police shoot him with their guns 20 times? Me: .......... For the